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Title: Wearing of cross and chain.
Post by: loulou on October 15, 2006, 03:40:29 pm
A Heathrow Airport employee has said she plans to sue British Airways for religious discrimination in a row over the wearing of a cross necklace.

Check-in worker Nadia Eweida, 55, of Twickenham, said she was effectively "forced" to take unpaid leave after refusing to conceal the symbol.

BA denied it had banned the wearing of crosses.

It said its uniform policy stated that such items could be worn if concealed underneath the uniform.

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Post by: oldspice on October 15, 2006, 03:47:34 pm
I think she has the right to wear it under her uniform. It could be a health and safety risk if it is dangling outside and she is leaning forward.
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Post by: loulou on October 15, 2006, 03:48:41 pm
I read somewhere that newsreader Fiona Bruce is not allowed to wear her cross and chain.
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Post by: oldspice on October 15, 2006, 03:50:27 pm
This is a Christian country. A cross and chain is much less obvious than a veil.
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Post by: smurfboy on October 15, 2006, 03:51:32 pm
Sometimes you just have to accept rules are rules. I am against religious discrimination, but Christians are not required to wear crucifixes unless I've missed something! This woman is 55 - isn't it time she grew up?
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Post by: loulou on October 15, 2006, 03:53:03 pm
Don't you think she has a right to wear what she wants?
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Post by: smurfboy on October 15, 2006, 03:56:55 pm

Then why not go the whole hog and not bother to wear her uniform? Why not come into work in woad?


She knew the rules, she broke them, and now instead of facing up to it she has gone crying 'poor me' to the press. They didn't even make her take it off for God's sake! All she had to do was wear it under her blouse!

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Post by: kevvosa on October 15, 2006, 05:50:23 pm

Quote from: loulou
Don't you think she has a right to wear what she wants?


So if she turns up in a bikini it's ok?
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Post by: loulou on October 15, 2006, 05:53:22 pm
 Bikini 2  If she is comfortable and warm enough.Bikini





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Post by: kevvosa on October 15, 2006, 06:01:43 pm
What if she wears a thong? 
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Post by: loulou on October 15, 2006, 06:03:32 pm
whatever floats your boat.
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Post by: kevvosa on October 15, 2006, 06:07:53 pm
Deffinitely doesn't float this boat. 
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Post by: oldspice on October 15, 2006, 06:22:11 pm

I think it's reasonable to ask her to wear it under her uniform.

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Post by: smurfboy on November 21, 2006, 02:26:28 pm
Common sense has prevailed and this woman has lost her appeal. Good - maybe that will stop a few of these people who sue at the drop of a hat (or necklace).
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Post by: loulou on November 21, 2006, 03:45:08 pm
No win, no claim. A bit obvious she would lose her appeal. She is the wrong colour and race.
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Post by: smurfboy on November 21, 2006, 04:34:23 pm

It's nothing to do with that! She wanted to wear an item of jewellery - and that's all it is, jewellery - that was not allowed as part of her uniform. Didn't she read the terms and conditions of her job when she accepted it? She wasn't even forced to remove it, just conceal it.


It's not the same as a Sikh being asked to remove their turban. That is a requirement of the religion (although some more liberal Sikhs choose not to wear one). A crucifix may be a symbol of Christianity, but it has always been the individual choice of Christians whether to wear one or not - it certainly isn't required.

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Post by: EASTEREGG on November 21, 2006, 07:34:14 pm
Quote from: loulou
A Heathrow Airport employee has said she plans to sue British Airways for religious discrimination in a row over the wearing of a cross necklace.

Check-in worker Nadia Eweida, 55, of Twickenham, said she was effectively "forced" to take unpaid leave after refusing to conceal the symbol.

BA denied it had banned the wearing of crosses.

It said its uniform policy stated that such items could be worn if concealed underneath the uniform.



DAMN RIGHT SHE CANT WEAR IT. ITS OFFENSIVE.


MY TURBAN IS FINE THOUGH.

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Post by: smurfboy on November 21, 2006, 07:38:30 pm
Oh good, Easteregg is back. How I've missed him.
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Post by: oldspice on November 22, 2006, 07:04:42 am

A man who wears a Turban would never disrespect another person's religion.

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Post by: loulou on November 22, 2006, 11:11:37 pm
Yay the egg returns.
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Post by: oldspice on November 23, 2006, 06:59:26 am
Has he ever been away?
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Post by: on November 23, 2006, 09:04:07 am
As a Christian, I was greatly angered by this story.  I wear a crucifix and chain on the outside of my T shirt/pullover all the time.  It is not simply jewellery, it is a crucifix and is a symbol of my faith.  This IS a Christian country, even though we are slowly descending into secularism.

I don't care whether people want to wear the Hidjab, turbans, thongs or whatever but if anyone tried to stop me wearing my crucifix they would not find me sitting back and accepting it.  The health and safety argument is poppycock.  I hope this lady takes her case as far as possible and wins.

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Post by: loulou on November 23, 2006, 11:35:21 am
I agree with bounty for once.
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Post by: smurfboy on November 23, 2006, 11:53:58 am

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As a Christian, I was greatly angered by this story. I wear a crucifix and chain on the outside of my T shirt/pullover all the time. It is not simply jewellery, it is a crucifix and is a symbol of my faith. This IS a Christian country, even though we are slowly descending into secularism.

I don't care whether people want to wear the Hidjab, turbans, thongs or whatever but if anyone tried to stop me wearing my crucifix they would not find me sitting back and accepting it. The health and safety argument is poppycock. I hope this lady takes her case as far as possible and wins.


But what if you had taken a job with terms and conditions stating visible jewellery was unacceptable? No one is saying this woman should be stopped from wearing a crucifix down to the shops, when she goes out at night - what she, and you, wear in your own lives is entirely your choice. She's not even being stopped from wearing it at work! All she has to do is keep it under her blouse!


You describe it as a symbol of your faith, but it is one you wear by choice - your religion doesn't dictate that it should be worn. In practical terms it can be concealed easily, unlike a turban or veil (although as I understand it the Quran does not insist these should b worn, so I feel it is perfectly acceptable for employers to ask for these to be removed). Faith is a personal choice; why does this woman have to force it down people's throats by wearing this crucifix?


If she turned up late every day, she would be breaking the rules of her employment. If she took twice the normal lunchbreak, she would be breaking the rules. If she stole office supplies, she would be breaking the rules. Why is deciding she doesn't want to wear her uniform despite repeated warnings any different? She has lost her appeal and quite rightly so.

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Post by: on November 23, 2006, 11:56:19 am
Yay!
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Post by: loulou on November 23, 2006, 02:37:41 pm
Smurfy you will think differently when you start your new job and they tell you to put some clothes on and take off that white hat.
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Post by: Cherry_Ripe on November 23, 2006, 02:40:40 pm
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Post by: on November 24, 2006, 07:56:05 am
I would not take a job where the rules stipulated that I could not display my crucifix.  I do not shove it down other people's throats but it is important to me that it is displayed.  For me to deny Jesus Christ in order to keep a employer happy is a very serious thing indeed.

Incidentally my 'Yay' was in reply to Loulou's post and somehow Smurfy's got posted first.
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Post by: loulou on November 24, 2006, 08:31:41 am
Yes we know you yayed me.
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Post by: kevvosa on November 24, 2006, 09:24:32 am
How does it feel to be yayeyd by bounty? 
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Post by: loulou on November 24, 2006, 10:02:42 am
about the same as being yayed by anyone.
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Post by: smurfboy on November 24, 2006, 11:16:39 am

Quote from: bounty hunter
I would not take a job where the rules stipulated that I could not display my crucifix.


Exactly - you wouldn't take the job. And if it was so important to this woman to wear a visible crucifix, she shouldn't have taken the BA job, should she?

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Post by: kevvosa on November 24, 2006, 02:25:31 pm
She probably wanted to cause a fuss and get herself in the news. 
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Post by: loulou on November 25, 2006, 12:07:37 am
It could be a new show...'make me a celebrity and let me wear this'.
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Post by: oldspice on November 25, 2006, 08:08:52 am
THis is all getting out of hand isn't it? I mean Jesus is not going to be offended if all his followers do not wear crosses and what kind of religion requires women to cover their faces in front of men. What does that say about the man? It's just a matter of how people interpret what they read. Everyone is just jumping on the band waggon demanding rights for this and rights for that. No one wants to give any more. It's all take, take, take.
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Post by: on November 25, 2006, 10:10:01 am
The muslim women thinks it hides their modesty but I think it is sexy so the jokes on them!
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Post by: loulou on November 25, 2006, 11:35:35 am
 School Uniform Muslim Woman 

Bounty if you had to make a choice between a muslim woman and a schoolgirl which one would you choose?



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Post by: smurfboy on November 25, 2006, 03:25:00 pm
A Muslim schoolgirl?
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Post by: loulou on November 25, 2006, 05:13:16 pm
I never thought of that.
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Post by: kevvosa on November 25, 2006, 05:30:08 pm

Quote from: bounty hunter
The muslim women thinks it hides their modesty but I think it is sexy so the jokes on them!


I thought it was because they save themselves only for their husbands to see.
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Post by: loulou on November 25, 2006, 09:25:23 pm
I thought it was not to scare the public with their facial hair.
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Post by: oldspice on November 26, 2006, 09:35:16 am

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The muslim women thinks it hides their modesty but I think it is sexy so the jokes on them!


Don't Muslim men have any modesty then?


I know a very nice Muslim man who says that it is not part of their religion - it's just how some Muslims choose to interpret the Qu'ran.

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Post by: on November 26, 2006, 12:24:00 pm
I think Kasmiri girls are very nice, but tend not to grow old gracefully. On the whole I would say I would go for the schoolgirl every time.  However I am going through a Ronni Ancona phase - gosh she's one sexy woman!!!!  
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Post by: on November 26, 2006, 12:54:09 pm
I have to say while I like schoolgirls, there's something about Ronni Ancona and Kate Humble and that woman who reads the news on C5.  Schoolgirls are like Hor's Doeuvre's but mature women are a better main course.  What this has got to do with cross and chain I'm not sure.  
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Post by: loulou on November 26, 2006, 01:47:42 pm
It went cross and chain - religion - muslims - veils - veils being sexy - schoolgirls. Simple really bounty.
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Post by: on November 26, 2006, 07:55:24 pm
When you put it like that, yes it's simple.  I don't set out to be naughty, it just happens.
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Post by: loulou on November 27, 2006, 01:24:12 am
I think I did draw you into it this time though.
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Post by: Velvet Darkness on December 01, 2006, 08:29:28 pm

Sorry to be boring but......back to topic. :)


 


From what I can gather from these posts, she took the job knowing she had to wear it under her clothes, and if she was wearing it, she must have worn it under her clothes for a while or they wouldn't have given her the job in the first place right?


So my thought goes ...........If she knew she wasn't allowed to wear it out of her clothes, and wore it next to her skin for the interview in order to get the job, which she must have done....... what's her problem now?


Either she has only just started wearing it and therefore how religious can it be for her? OR she wasn't bothered enough to state her case from the start and insist on wearing it outside her clothes at which point they would have hired someone else. It would seem to be more about sueing them for money than anything else.


I can't see any of the options I can come up with showing her in a very good light at all.


Velvet.

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Post by: oldspice on December 02, 2006, 10:38:45 am

Good points. It's like that teaching assistant wanting to wear the veil when she didn't wear it at her interview.


You don't have to show your cross for people to know you are a Christian. As the old hymn goes:


"They'll know we are Christians by our love"

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Post by: goldencup on December 02, 2006, 11:01:07 am
Sounds like the old "Show him your cross" joke.
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Post by: oldspice on December 02, 2006, 01:37:04 pm


I know that one and just thinking about it makes me giggle.

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Post by: smurfboy on December 02, 2006, 01:42:17 pm
Quote from: Velvet Darkness

Sorry to be boring but......back to topic. :)


From what I can gather from these posts, she took the job knowing she had to wear it under her clothes, and if she was wearing it, she must have worn it under her clothes for a while or they wouldn't have given her the job in the first place right?


So my thought goes ...........If she knew she wasn't allowed to wear it out of her clothes, and wore it next to her skin for the interview in order to get the job, which she must have done....... what's her problem now?


Either she has only just started wearing it and therefore how religious can it be for her? OR she wasn't bothered enough to state her case from the start and insist on wearing it outside her clothes at which point they would have hired someone else. It would seem to be more about sueing them for money than anything else.


I can't see any of the options I can come up with showing her in a very good light at all.



That sound you can all hear is a nail being hit on the head.

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Post by: kevvosa on December 02, 2006, 06:24:47 pm
Here here

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Post by: goldencup on December 02, 2006, 07:04:41 pm
Clang!